How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 03:01
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Does not procrastinate.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
What is the best sex you have ever had (in detail)?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Procrastinates a lot.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why do wives cheat on their loyal husbands?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Why is the government destroying the homeless instead of helping them?
Ask yourself:
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why would my ex block me after I blocked him?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How did the Nazis figure out whether a person or community is 'Aryan' or not?
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
How do I become an intelligent man?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Have you ever had sex with your female cousin? How did it start?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
When was the first time you suck on a penis?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
How do you recognize when your mental health might need attention?
Making more friends is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What is the worst emotional pain you ever felt as an adult?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What I need from you?
If you were president, how would you make America "great again?"
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
That's it for today.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.